Aimée Crocker circa 1890
|Born||Amy Isabella Crocker
December 5, 1864
Sacramento, California, U.S.
|Died||February 7, 1941
New York City, New York, U.S.
|Other names||Princess Aimée Isabella Crocker Ashe Gillig Gouraud Miskinoff Galitzine|
|Spouse(s)||Richard Porter Ashe (m. 1882–1887)
Henry Mansfield Gillig (m. 1889–1900)
Jackson Gouraud (m. 1901–1910)
Alexander Miskinoff (m. 1914–1916)
Prince Mstislav Galitzine, Count Ostermann (m. 1925–1927)
|Children||Gladys (b. 11-21-84)
Reginald (b. 3-31-97)
Yvonne (b. 5-1-99)
Dolores (b. 7-20-06)
Yolanda (b. 6-15)
Aimée Crocker (December 5, 1864 – February 7, 1941) was an American heiress, princess, Bohemian, mystic and author best known for her adventures in the Far East, for her extravagant parties in San Francisco, New York and Paris and for her collections of husbands and lovers, adopted children, Buddhas, pearls, tattoos and snakes.
Aimée's father was the chief legal counsel for the Central Pacific Railroad and was one of its principal investors along with Mark Hopkins, Collis Huntington, Leland Stanford and brother Charles Crocker, also known as The Big Four. Together they built the western portion of the world’s First Transcontinental Railroad. Edwin served briefly as a California Chief Justice. Aimée's mother is also known for founding Sacramento’s Crocker Art Museum, the longest continuously operating art museum in the West with, for a time, the largest private collection in the country.
Aimée was the first cousin of William Henry Crocker, humanitarian and president of three great West Coast institutions: the Crocker Bank (once the 14th largest bank in the nation), the University of California, and the California Academy of Sciences. When much of the city of San Francisco was destroyed by the fire from the 1906 earthquake, William Crocker and his bank were major forces in financing reconstruction. Wife Ethel Crocker was the leading, if not the only, California patron of French Impressionist art at the time, owning paintings by Claude Monet, Eugene Boudin, Camille Pissarro, Pierre-Auguste Renoir, and Edgar Degas.
Aimée's grandson Gerald Russell was a naturalist, an adventurer and a cryptozoologist who joined several very well publicized expeditions including the Percy Sladen expedition to Africa, where in the high forests of the British Cameroons, he reportedly encountered a large unclassified animal Mokèlé-mbèmbé. While in the Assumbo Mountains, he witnessed the over flight of a giant batlike creature known as the Olitiau. In 1936, Russell joined the Ruth Harkness Asiatic Expedition to Tibet. They were the first to successfully capture the then elusive, almost mythical beisung [giant panda]. In 1958 Russell was selected to lead the Slick-Johnson Snowman Expedition to Nepal, during which his guide claimed to have actually seen a Teh-lma, which is the smallest type of Yeti, in the upper Arun Valley of Nepal.
Early years 
Aimée Crocker was the sixth child in a family of four girls, two boys, and a half sister. Three of the children would die young. Aimée was left with a fortune of $10 million in 1875 (196 million in 2010 dollars), when her father "E.B" died. Two years later, her mother Margaret decided to send the precocious young girl to a finishing school in Dresden, Germany. There she was presented at court and had her first love affair and engagement—with Prince Alexander of Saxe Weimar. Aimée followed up that romance with a brief entanglement with a Spanish bullfighter.
Aimée hit the national stage in 1883, when traveling to Los Angeles on her honeymoon with first husband, Porter Ashe. The train carrying the eloping couple broke loose at the summit of a hill in Tehachapi, killing 21 people and seriously injuring another 12. Aimée’s young husband, whose forefathers had given their name to Asheville, North Carolina and whose uncle was the great Civil War Admiral David Farragut, was credited with pulling people to safety. According to a front page New York Times report Ashe, “exhibited a great deal of cool heroism at the burning of the cars. After drawing his wife and her maid through the window of the sleeper, he rescued ex-California Governor John G. Downey from between broken timbers, and saved his life.”
Not long after the birth of their daughter Gladys (AKA Alma) Aimée’s marriage collapsed. Porter plunged into a score of speculations, none of which proved successful. He spent a small fortune on his racing studs, and then sold off many of them to settle gambling debts. Porter became the patron of prize-fighters, and began to dance attendance upon the latest favorite of the ballet or the comic opera. His friendships with actresses Lillie Langtry and Lotta Crabtree were the source of much gossip. Aimée was herself seen everywhere at fashionable entertainments, not with her husband, but with some young cavalier.
Aimée wrote about her friend and literary genius Oscar Wilde, a frequent visitor to her home in San Francisco in her 1936 autobiography, And I’d Do It Again (named the most sought after out-of-print biography in America in 2009 by bookfinder.com.) In her memoirs, Aimée tells the story of a bawdy drinking game that the "magnificent" Wilde won during one of his visits to the City by the Bay.
The breakup of Aimée’s first marriage became a national scandal. Porter and his brother, Sydney, kidnapped daughter Gladys in Los Angeles, while Aimée and her mother attended a wedding. Charges and countercharges made daily news during the custody battle, and courthouse proceedings attracted a crowd of hundreds. In spite of Porter’s reputation as a notorious gambler, in spite of his kidnapping charge and a weapons charge, and in spite of the Crocker millions, the little girl’s mother would not be awarded custody. Aimée, it seems, had the worse reputation. Porter left the courthouse with the child. Gladys was later adopted by Aimée’s mother.
Life in the Far East 
After the public humiliation of losing her child to her scoundrel husband, Aimée decided to leave little Gladys in the care of her mother and go on an extended tour of the Far East, stopping first in Hawaii. King Kalākaua was so enamored with Aimée that he gave her one of his islands and an official title: Princess Palaikalani—Bliss of Heaven. She found an occasional traveling companion in her second husband, Henry Mansfield Gillig. Gillig was a Commodore, a prestidigitator, and a respected amateur opera singer who cultivated his voice under the Polish master Jean de Reszke. Opera legend Adelina Patti after hearing Gillig perform insisted the tenor sing song after song to her while she listened in ecstatic silence.
Crocker's autobiography chronicles many hair-raising and titillating adventures while living in the Far East sometimes with Gillig and sometimes traveling alone including: a blood curdling escape from headhunters in Borneo, a poisoning in Hong Kong; a murder attempt by knife-throwing servants in Shanghai; three weeks in the harem of Bhurlana (Aimée claimed to be the first English speaking woman who had ever seen the inside of a harem); a search for Kaivalya (Liberation) at the cave of the Great Yogin Bhojaveda in Poona; and two bizarre sensual experiences, one with an Indian boa constrictor, and another with a Chinese violin in the House of the Ivory Panels. When she returned to New York after living off and on in “the Orient” for 10 years sporting tattoos, wearing snakes around her neck at parties and declaring her love for the Buddha, she became a national eccentric whose every move made headlines.
During her marriage to Gillig, Aimée had several affairs with powerful Asian men, which were chronicled in her memoirs. She had a three year enchantment with literary figure Edgar Saltus while married to the Commodore. Saltus, acclaimed by fellow writers in his day, was known for his highly refined prose style and for his intriguing historical fiction. He also wrote two books of philosophy, The Philosophy of Disenchantment and The Anatomy of Negation. His novel Daughters of the Rich was filmed in 1923.
Life in New York 
Aimée met her third husband, the true love of her life Jackson Gouraud, at a Buddhist colony that she organized (said to be the first in Manhattan) and settled somewhat. Gouraud was a musical author who gave to Broadway the Ragtime melodies “Keep Your Eye on Your Friend, Mr. Johnson,” “She’s a ’Spectable Married Colored Lady,” “I’se Workin’—I’se Hustlin,” “He’s My Soft Shell Crab on Toast,” and “My Jetney Queen.” He set the town singing with the broadly comic number-one hit of his song writing career, “Waldorf-Hyphen-Astoria.” Gouraud’s father, Colonel George Gouraud, was himself an internationally known figure who acted as an agent for Thomas Edison in Europe. He helped found the Edison Telephone Company of London, and a number of European companies using Edison’s technology.
Together Aimée and her third husband adopted two children, Reginald and Yvonne (she would later adopt two more: Dolores and Yolanda), and acquired numerous bulldogs. The Gourauds lived in glamorous Oriental themed homes in Manhattan and on Long Island. They also had tattoos of each other's initials inscribed inside coiling snakes. Aimée then reunited with her natural daughter Gladys who went on to marry Jackson’s brother, Powers, making her daughter (who was already legally her sister) a sister-in-law.
The Jackson Gourauds became well known Broadway “First Nighters” attending all of the opening nights of the biggest plays at the grandest theaters. Aimée befriended all of the Broadway greats of the time including Anna Held, David Belasco, John Drew, and the Barrymore family. Her good friend, the legendary Italian tenor Enrico Caruso, often visited and sometimes performed at her New York homes. Eventually Aimée would be invited to play herself on Broadway at the grand opening of the Folies Bergère Theater in Rennold Wolf’s vaudeville “profane satire” piece "Hell," with music by Irving Berlin. Another Aimée Crocker character would turn up in a modern society comedy "The Lassoo," by Victor Mapes, a few years later at the Lyceum.
The Gourauds would make headlines in the early years of the 20th century when their lavish mansion in the Long Island Sound burned to the ground, and when, on another occasion, several of Aimée's prized bulldogs were tragically poisoned. Aimée and Jack were known to go on "slumming" tours through the dregs of lower New York City with good friend and self-proclaimed Mayor of Chinatown, Chuck Connors, who Aimée claimed silently ruled the Underworld. The colorful Connors would become a lead character in a 20th century Fox film "The Bowery (1933 film)," starring Wallace Beery.
Around this time Aimée began hosting lavish parties. She threw a Robinson Crusoe themed party in Parisian treetops in 1905. At a country circus bash at the Hippodrome, then the largest theater in New York, she appeared as a dairy maid and arrived on the back of an elephant. Her co-host that evening was the legendary scallywag/carnival barker Wilson Mizner who would later become a co-owner of the Brown Derby. Another memorable appearance was as Madame de Pompadour, Louis XV’s mistress, in a costume party in Paris, and yet another gala that she hosted had her pet boa constrictor, Kaa, as the guest of honor.
Her crowning achievement as “Entertainer of Entertainers” which received press all over the world would be “The Dance of all Nations.” The program that evening featured the very frank “Salome” dance, the curious Vienna Viggle, and the “cannibal” dancer Dogmeena, whose costume consisted of coconut oil and a red sash, and who enthusiastically danced in La Danse des Igorrotes. Aimée, appearing in pearls “that would clothe a baby and ransom a king,” delighted the company when she danced La Madrilena, an Argentine tango with one of her most recent admirers. A little later, with a twelve foot snake twined round her neck, she appeared in La Danse de Cobra. When her guests backed away from the snake’s emerald eyes and darting tongue, she exclaimed, “It’s as gentle as a powder puff."
Life in Paris 
After Jackson died of an acute attack of tonsillitis, Aimée was hospitalized in Paris. She returned to her public to promote a book of short stories, "arabesques" as her published called them, entitled Moon Madness and Other Fantasies which drew not from her imagination but from her ten years living in foreign lands as a native. She also changed the spelling of her named from Amy to Aimée and moved her children to an estate in Paris dubbed “The House of Fantasy.” Aimée would live for the next 27 years in the City of Lights throwing sensational and neurotic parties and housing young artists and exiled Russian nobles.
She was linked to many after the death of Jackson including: Eduardo García-Mansilla, the great Argentinean musician, composer and diplomat, with whom she wrote a song Mon Amour; Genia D’Agarioff, opera baritone singer, who is credited with being the first person to sing in the Russian language in London and Paris; Composer, performer, designer, director, and arranger Melville Ellis; Jacques LeBaudy, the self-proclaimed “Emperor of the Sahara;” and legendary French actor Edouard de Max, “The Most Beautiful Man in Paris.”
Another notable suitor during this dark period, when the love of her life died and the world was at war, was occultist Aleister Crowley who was dubbed “The Wickedest Man in the World.” Crowley wrote about their memorable affair in graphic detail in his journal. He proposed marriage to the heiress nearly every time he saw or wrote her for ten years.
None of these contenders were lively enough for her Tabasco taste.
Though Aimée kept the name Gouraud for the rest of her life, she did have two more internationally publicized and scandalous marriages/divorces to Russian princes both decades younger than her. Her fourth husband, Alexander Miskinoff, caused a stir on two continents when he was accused of having an extramarital affair with Aimée’s then 15-year old adopted daughter Yvonne. Aimée would marry her fifth and final husband, Prince Mstislav Galitzine, when she was 61 and he was 26 and become a part of one of the largest and noblest princely houses of Russia. When asked by a friend who lost count of her marriages whether Mstislav was her fifth or sixth husband, she said, “The prince is my twelfth husband if I include in my matrimonial list seven Oriental husbands, not registered under the laws of the Occident.”
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